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A few days ago, my eldest child graduated from community college with an Associate Degree in Computer Science. The graduation ceremony was lovely, and we had a wonderful time as a family celebrating her accomplishment. She did it!

Amidst all the excitement, I couldn’t help but wonder where the time had gone so fast. It feels like it was only yesterday that I was nestling her in my arms as a baby, dropping her off on her first day of kindergarten, then primary school, and finally, community college. I have cherished every moment in her life, and I am eternally grateful to God for the life, health, and opportunity to be present.

For the past two years, I have journeyed back and forth, taking her to and from school to make the process as stress-free as possible. I enjoyed our conversations in the car, whether they were serious or lighthearted. Every moment was meaningful. I looked forward to her coming home at the end of the day so we could all be together under one roof; it felt so complete. The thought that these moments will no longer be part of our daily routine creates a slight sense of anxiety within me. I long for more days like these, but all that remains now are precious memories.

Now, we are on the brink of change, closing the door on the last two years of her life and focusing on the very near future: university, where she will spend another two years pursuing her Bachelor of Science degree. This time, however, it will be significantly different. She will be leaving home for the first time in her life, and she will be farther away from our watchful eyes. No more picking her up after school, no more daily hugs and kisses, no more setting her straight when she goes off course, and no more daily conversations during our trips.

All I have now is hope that all the years of pouring into her will be enough to help her navigate the next season of her life.

Certainly, it will be fun, life-changing, and memorable, but there will also be challenges because such is life. She will be tested, but I am confident that she can overcome them. If she needs us at any moment, we are only a phone call or a few hours’ drive away. She has a storehouse full of endless treasures and lessons to draw from when needed. Most importantly, she can call upon our Savior, her Savior Jesus Christ, at any time, who promises to always be there.

I pray for nothing but success for her on this journey. I can’t wait for her calls to tell me about her days. I pray that she will exceed our expectations and especially her own. Most of all, I pray that she will draw even closer to the Lord and glorify Him in all that she does.

Congratulations, Aliyah. Head high and keep shining.